The Hook-Up

So I decided to go on another totally random date with some guy from CL on Saturday. His ad seemed normal enough - plans fell through, didn't feel like staying in. Yeah, buddy, me too. So I responded. It turns out that he's smart, not bad looking, not quite as tall as I'd like but passes the heel test, easy to talk to, and a nice kisser. Hehe. He had this fascination with my lips, or so he put it. And he likes to dance - bonus! It's funny, he admitted that he didn't expect to like me. I suppose that means that he didn't expect to like me that much. Honestly, I am the same way - I didn't expect to enjoy his company that much. I expected to just hang out and chill downtown, not end up kissing the guy for hours on end. Life, however, is full of pleasant surprises. No sex - I didn't cross that line. But it was nice to feel pretty and wanted. Is he Mr. Right? That is putting the cart waaaay before the horse. I suspect that he isn't, but I am just going to enjoy the company for now, should it recur. The randomness of it all makes it exciting. It's odd, because it just felt very natural and nice. I haven't had that feeling in a while. So what's the difference between this dude and the other dude? The other dude gave off a vibe that I couldn't trust him completely - give him an inch and he'd take a mile. Plus, he writes about some of the women he 'plays' with and I really don't feel like ending up in some book. A funny note - Mr. Pissy called me while I was out with this dude! haha! He says that he wasn't pissy, but admits to being terse. Yeah, whatever. Anyway, I kept that conversation short. He text messaged me, though, saying that he hoped that I enjoyed the club. haha. If you only knew... Mr. Pissy called back later today while I was playing Scrabble online. He still won't admit to being pissy. But he admits that he likes talking to me, enjoys having intellectual conversation. Finally, he's coming around. He said that last night's call wasn't a booty call and that he wasn't drunk when he called. He was so proud of himself. Granted, there was no booty to be called, but still... we'll see how things work out in just being friends. Stay tuned.